Exploring My Sexuality
Updated: Sep 8
When I first started escorting I thought I’d already thoroughly explored my sexuality and knew my likes & dislikes, and could effectively communicate them to my partner. Since then, I’ve realised how much I was missing out by assuming I was ‘done’ with exploring as well as how much I was limiting myself by being closed-minded around certain fetishes. Sex work has introduced me to a whole new world of fetishes & kinks I’d never even considered before. I still remember my first foot worship session; the idea of someone touching my feet had never excited me, but once I locked eyes with the man who was sucking on my big toe I knew I’d been missing out. Afterwards, I lay down with my vibrator pressed against my clit, running an index finger up and down the centre of my soles… it was one of the best orgasms I’d ever had.
Golden showers were also a thing I’d never really ‘understood’ before. Once I started offering femdom sessions, the requests for GS started pouring in, so I figured I’d give it a go… and discovered once I learnt how to relax my body enough for it to successfully happen each time, I really enjoyed it. I enjoyed the display of dominance it can be; as well as the intimacy shared during it. Not too long ago I had a regular ask if I’d consider receiving a GS from another woman. After some consideration, I said I’d be happy to try it, and I’m so glad I did. It was something totally different, and although I don’t think I’ll be adding it to my personal list of kinks, it was still a fun experience.
And then there are things like spitting. I’d seen people spit into each other’s mouths in porn, and again, didn’t get the appeal at first. Then one day I’m with the loveliest client, and he sweetly asks me to spit in his mouth. I obliged, and within a few minutes had a dry mouth as I enjoyed drooling between his lips so much. It was sweet, dirty, and intimate all at the same time. Plus he was making the loveliest moans; and there’s nothing that gets me as excited as a man moaning in pleasure I don’t know if I will ever stop exploring & learning about my sexuality; there are so many different things to try! And that’s what I love about this job; I’m constantly getting the chance to learn new things about myself and my sexuality, as well as helping my clients explore their kinks & limits.